Attract Love

Our self-image is created by a lifetime of feedback from the world around us. Perhaps the most common problem with self- image today has to do with appearance versus the media and the culturally accepted norm. We are all bombarded with ads particularly on TV showing beautiful people successfully getting what they want by using particular products or wearing specific clothes. But don't compare yourself to the people on the magazine covers and the TV ads.

Have you wondered how come your friend or someone you know has the best and loving boyfriend and you who is more accomplished and better looking, have no one special or significant in your life?

It could be that there are some underlying reasons which you are not conscious of and it is about time to do something about it.

But first, lets get some things straight.  The right way for you to be attractive is to relax and be yourself. Expressing yourself and your unique qualities. Warmth and sensuality, sensitivity and humor have nothing to do with looks or clothing, money or fame.

Start projecting the real you. The authentic you. Then you will find yourself not only attractive to others, but becoming more attractive and on the road to a realistic and satisfying relationship.

If you're not 100% happy with the real you, you have the power and ability to enhance who you really are, we at HealWithin specialize in guiding and helping you bring out your highest loving true-self that is and has been within you all this time. We just help you unveil that part of you and become the best that you can be.

Here are some thoughts for you to begin with - when you come in for your sessions, we will then help you uncover the remaining self-sabotaging reasons you no longer need to keep and let them go!

To begin with:

• Do you know what you are looking for in a love or a mate? 
• What kind of person do you really want? You have likes and dislikes, beliefs and attitudes, and you live a particular lifestyle. Some of these factors should be compatible with an ideal lover. 
• There are things about others that turn you off and turn you on. List the characteristics you'd like in your ideal lover, including appearance, beliefs, habits, values, etc. 
• Make a list of the positive qualities you would hope to find and the negative qualities that are not negotiable. Your expectations must include a willingness to love someone as they are, not as you would like them to be. 
•  What are your best qualities, your positive traits, your accomplishments of any kind and see what you have to offer in return. It's important that you realize that you deserve a loving relationship. If you want someone to fall in love with you, you must recognize that you have something unique, positive and interesting to offer that someone. We are all unique and worthy of being loved. 

When it comes to enhancing who you are, realize that your personality is the sum total of all your past programming. It amounts to an interaction of three factors: traits, habits and perception. None of these factors are genetically inherited. They are acquired. Thus, they are alterable with new programming.

Time to attract and be in Love